Enough IS Enough

Posted on August 16, 2007 
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UPDATE:
I’ve gotten an overwhelming amount of private messages and comments through other sites about this issue today.If you have a negative experience to share about MFDS and the adminstration, please post a reply here so that others can be informed. You may do so anonymously and without fear of retribution.
ORIGINAL POST:

Something happened back in March.  I discovered a site called www.myfinancialdommespace.com.

I was intrigued and pleased at the same time, as many of you, both Ladies and boys, I’m sure were as well.  What a resource for the financial fetish community!

But then something happened.  Something that I was unsure of making public until a few minutes ago, but have now decided with additional events that have occurred and other Dommes who have dealt with the same, THAT is imperative for you ALL to know and be aware of the SERIOUS privacy violations and illegal activity the Administrator of that site is partaking in and how it could potentially harm you.

The Story:

I was contacted by a boy on myfinancialdommespace.com through the messaging system within the site.  This boy proceeded to give Me his username and password to Keen, as he enjoyed the idea of Me getting into his account and “stealing” his money.

Well, it turns out that this particular boy had spoken with the Admin aka Mistress Redwhip aka Lisa at an earlier date.  It seems that like some of those silly boys do, he lead her to believe he would be serving her.  While I DO NOT agree with that behaviour, I cannot abide by someone disrespecting all notions of privacy.

Upon entering the private messages that the boy and I had exchanged on the site, Lisa proceeded to actually steal his Keen password and login to his account.  She tore his Keen account apart, deleting things, changing his password so he could not enter it and also left a snide little feedback comment to Me from the boy's transaction – “great to jerkoff to”.

The next morning, the boy contacted Me, rushing to warn Me about the serious privacy violations that Lisa aka Admin was engaging in.  He was also scared out of his wits that I was going to be upset with him about the feedback that Lisa left , and begged Me to read the two chat transcripts he had saved between Lisa and himself, so as to prove he was telling the truth.

A partial chat transcript of his report to Me (via Eyeball chat, which has no ability to time/date stamp):

DecadentGoddess: She stole the account info is what you are saying
smaz12: yes
DecadentGoddess: Oh boy
smaz12: i called on going in to private im's,
smaz12: no shit
smaz12: i called my lawyer today
DecadentGoddess: What did your lawyer say?
smaz12: going into the im’s is wrong, but you willl have a hard time prosecuting
smaz12: but
smaz12: when she took my name and password, that was identity theft
DecadentGoddess: Exactly
DecadentGoddess: I am actually on the phone with My attorney and he’s agreeing
smaz12: i am really sorry i got you into this
DecadentGoddess: You didn’t get Me into anything
DecadentGoddess: She got herself into this
smaz12: ok
DecadentGoddess: And that’s where the problem lies
DecadentGoddess: You simply don’t do that
smaz12: i am sure she was doing this before me
DecadentGoddess: jealous or not
DecadentGoddess: It’s a violation of privacy and identity theft indeed
smaz12: oddly enough, when i joined, she sent me a note as the admin asking if i needed a recomendation
smaz12: and sent me to one of the girls.
smaz12: it was her, under a different login
DecadentGoddess: That’s fucked up – is she THAT desperate?
smaz12: well, she did that, we talked for an hour on our private phones, and i still went and found you. how good can she be. i gave you personal info immediatly

What ensues in the following EXACT chat transcript that the boy presented to Me is something that ALL of you engaging in interactions within myfinancialdommespace.com NEED to read (NOTE: j a is the Admin Lisa):

j a (3/22/2007 7:27:08 AM): answer your phone..
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:27:22 AM): ok
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:27:34 AM): ?
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:45:48 AM): what did you do to the keenaccount?
j a (3/22/2007 7:46:00 AM): oh, I changed the pass because I was pissed
j a (3/22/2007 7:46:03 AM): deleted the favs
j a (3/22/2007 7:46:04 AM): etc
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:46:13 AM): are you kidding?
j a (3/22/2007 7:46:23 AM): am I am in a kidding mood?
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:46:39 AM): this is going a little far
j a (3/22/2007 7:46:57 AM): there is a reason I hung up..
j a (3/22/2007 7:47:17 AM): and its because I shared a lot with you…I felt comfortable with you, and thats not often I feel that way.
j a (3/22/2007 7:47:24 AM): I just feel seriously lied to..
j a (3/22/2007 7:47:48 AM): like you werent upfront with me because there was still the hope I would whore myself for enough money
j a (3/22/2007 7:48:08 AM): and because of the connection I felt with you, I feel sick to my stomach
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:48:33 AM): well let me explain this clearly.
j a (3/22/2007 7:48:35 AM): From: davidguest To: DecadentGoddess Sent On:22.03.07 View Message amazing. I want to begin this journey serving you. hearing the enjoymeny in your voice as you drained me is unbelievable. are you a member of the humanatm yahoo group?
j a (3/22/2007 7:48:38 AM): no, no need
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:48:43 AM): i get off on being wallet raped.
j a (3/22/2007 7:48:46 AM): you have who you are going to serve..
j a (3/22/2007 7:49:00 AM): thats fine..I dont have a problem with that, and I wanted to last night but fucking respected the fact that you had this rule.
j a (3/22/2007 7:49:05 AM): so dont.. just done david
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:49:15 AM): i cannot mix that with a personal relationship
j a (3/22/2007 7:49:25 AM): obviously now..
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:49:43 AM): what is the keen password?
j a (3/22/2007 7:49:45 AM): what was your password before?
j a (3/22/2007 7:50:02 AM): laielani ?
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:50:07 AM): yes
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:50:12 AM): leilani
David Guest (3/22/2007 7:50:38 AM): we have things that are much deeper in common than this financial stuff
j a (3/22/2007 7:51:02 AM): leilani there you go
j a (3/22/2007 7:51:03 AM): )O(

In this first chat transcript, she admits to:

1. Having violated privacy and entered into private messages within the site, which she has the audacity to copy and paste right into the chat.

2. Having STOLEN information (Keen password) which she then used to illegally enter the boy's account on Keen and create havoc which she clearly boasts about.  The “etc” part she mentions is the feedback she left on the transaction I had with the boy.  This, My darlings, is called identity theft. 

3. Please also note the attempts to justify her illegal actions by using emotional ploys that she felt something “deeper” with him.

The SECOND chat transcript:

j a (3/22/2007 8:00:14 AM): and no, not because I am getting nothing from you
j a (3/22/2007 8:00:19 AM): I dont give a shit at this point
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:00:26 AM): but you will have a major legal issue if people find out you have access to their emails to each other
j a (3/22/2007 8:00:31 AM): but because we discussed a lot, and I put my trust in you.
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:00:48 AM): just be careful
j a (3/22/2007 8:01:02 AM): let me tell you something… my lawyer already knows…. myspace has them, mydommespace has them and so does mydungeonspace.com
j a (3/22/2007 8:01:08 AM): matter of fact, they also show ip’s etc
j a (3/22/2007 8:01:13 AM): and people know
j a (3/22/2007 8:01:27 AM): I made it a point to tell people that they are there..
j a (3/22/2007 8:01:33 AM): I told you, I dont lie and I dont decieve people..
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:01:34 AM): no. there is an “expectation of privacy” law.
j a (3/22/2007 8:01:36 AM): I am straight forward.
j a (3/22/2007 8:01:48 AM): this is the internet…and I didnt make the script…I just bought it.
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:02:03 AM): it applies primarily to the office/work setting where the company runs the server
j a (3/22/2007 8:02:05 AM): which is probably why I told people months ago..
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:02:12 AM): they cannot access private emails
j a (3/22/2007 8:02:21 AM): this isnt office/work
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:02:25 AM): i am not makin gthis up
j a (3/22/2007 8:02:29 AM): I didnt say you are
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:02:32 AM): thats the problem
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:02:43 AM): for work specific, thay can have access
j a (3/22/2007 8:02:43 AM): but remember, myspace, as well as every other site that runs the myspace script has it.
j a (3/22/2007 8:02:47 AM): I know for a fact
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:03:16 AM): myspace can only access private emails as part of the patriot act
j a (3/22/2007 8:03:36 AM): myspace has full access like the other sites do..just because they dont tell you doesnt mean they dont access.
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:03:43 AM): i am telling you, you can get in trouble
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:03:52 AM): ask your lawyer
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:03:58 AM): they dont
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:04:11 AM): i had the same issue with my company network
j a (3/22/2007 8:04:14 AM): I dont sit and read every email…if I get a complaint, I look into it…simple as that.. .. as far as you…ya, well, when I discuss my life with someone and then see that person doing what he said he wasnt..well.
j a (3/22/2007 8:04:17 AM): ok, so fucking report me.
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:04:21 AM): there were entire seminars on it
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:04:35 AM): i have no intention of that
j a (3/22/2007 8:04:41 AM): I wouldnt care either way
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:04:44 AM): just want you to be careful
j a (3/22/2007 8:04:49 AM): at this point, I would expect it
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:05:04 AM): ok well i do wish you well
j a (3/22/2007 8:05:20 AM): ya, ok
j a (3/22/2007 8:06:08 AM): I cant believe I trusted you
j a (3/22/2007 8:08:32 AM): do me a favor and stay off my site for a while…
j a (3/22/2007 8:08:38 AM): I am sick every time I see your name come up..
j a (3/22/2007 8:08:57 AM): Im sure you have these whores on your messenger..so you dont need my site to be a slut.
David Guest (3/22/2007 8:09:56 AM): if it helps you, you can delete the account
j a (3/22/2007 8:11:07 AM): the option to delete is in there

In this second chat transcript:

1. She admits to blatant disregard of privacy and identity theft – due to feigned emotional attachment?

2. Take note that the boy is still conducting himself towards her with respect and even attempting to warn her that she is violating laws of privacy.

The boy ended up deleting his account on Myfinancialdommespace.  I figured that Lisa's actions were just a trivial bit of jealousy and it would pass.  WRONG!

The next problem I had with Lisa was her calling the business of a boy I wrote about on My blog.  She called him to “warn” him that I was posting his information on her site and that she does not run a “blackmail” site.  What a good samaritan! And how flattering that she would take such an interest in Me as to read My blog religiously and phone My slaves!

Doesn’t she preach about that “contacting owned boys” like it’s Sunday everyday? Yes, the putrid hypocrisy never ends on Myfinancialdommespace.

And, if she doesn’t allow such “illegal activity” on her site, why is it that she runs the ONLY blackmail group on the site? http://www.myfinancialdommespace.com/main/groups/

It’s marked private now, but if you had been able to peek in, it was quite the hoot.  See, Lisa does CONTRACTUAL BLACKMAIL and that makes it 100% LEGAL cause her daggoned attorney whupped up the contract! 

Today was the final straw of Lisapoo poking her nose into My business, making threats against Me and blatantly violating laws while atop her little self-righteous cracked pedestal while pointing her chubby stubs at Myself and other Dommes on Myfinancialdommespace.

I have tried to make this warning as concise as possible, while still providing the facts for you to make your own decision.

I truly hope that everyone (Dommes, slaves and submissives) takes this warning very seriously.  If you join or continue to stay on Myfinancialdommespace, your privacy is being violated by the Admin of MFDS.


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